These unfiltered streams of thoughts offer my candid life and reflections. No polished prose here, just real authenticity. Heads up: movie spoilers may sneak in. Enjoy exploring!
My pocket-sized notebook isnât like a traditional diary or a
paragraph-heavy journal, nor a typical bullet journal or planner.
Instead, it builds on those concepts but with a unique purpose:
to view oneâs life from a birdâs-eye perspective, and review it with a
broader outlook. I call this my âLife at a Glance
System.â
Why Other Methods Didnât Work for Me as a Life Reflection ToolÂ
I started my journaling practice with the Bullet Journal Method
because it aligned with my goal of living intentionally and recording
life as it unfolds. The basics of the Bullet Journal Method
(not the decorated, elaborate versions often showcased by influencers)
are straightforward: the Future Log for reference, the
Monthly Log for tracking and scheduling, and Rapid
Logging for capturing moments and thoughts.
While Rapid Logging is helpful in the moment of jotting things
down, it became cumbersome over time: retrieving information was
challenging, and the keys (categorization symbols) were quite limited.
Additionally, repeatedly writing the same thingsâwhich the Bullet
Journal Method encourages to strengthen intentionâbecame tedious.
As a result, the review process felt like a chore, without a clear
structure built-in to process all these information. Without proper
review on Rapid Logging, I lost sight of the bigger picture of
my life.
Iâve realized that recording daily events and gaining an
overarching view of life are distinct needs, each deserving its own
dedicated space.
Later, I tried using a physical planner as a journal, hoping its
structure would help me better understand my life. Sure enough, planners
offer a better framework for review and retrieval. However, their
philosophy centers on looking ahead, while life itself isnât set in
stone and should focus on living day by day. Thatâs why I wasnât sure
how to use the yearly pages and monthly calendars, as I didnât
want to reflect on unfulfilled plans and an imaginary life. When I open
my life notebook, I want to see a life well-lived.
DetailedPlanning is a distinct mindset that
deserves its own dedicated system. My life notebook will be for
capturing lived experiences.
Hereâs the realization Iâve come to about documenting my days and
capturing my life: the most important thing I want is a
notebook that sums up my yearâa way to reflect on my life and see what
truly matters. I donât need to remember every detail, just the
most significant ones. Iâm okay with most details falling through the
cracks, as long as I can view my life as a whole. I simply want
a space where I can answer the crucial question: âHow has my life really
been?â
Thus, I created Life at a Glanceâmy own life-logging and
life-reflection system.
After experimenting for over a yearâblending templates and layouts from
bullet journaling, planners, and resources I found onlineâI discovered a
structure that truly fits my needs. And I hope it can fit into your
life, too.
While this system can be integrated into your current notebooks or
existing setups, I still urge you to try this system with a dedicated
notebook. There's something deeply satisfying about effortlessly
flipping through the pages and viewing your life at a glance, with clear
evidence of a life well-lived.
The 4 Anchors of Life: The Act of Counter Balancing
Life is complex and ever-changing, with multiple demands pulling us in
different directions. Itâs easy to get swept up amidst the shifting
tides of life, waking up one day wondering where you are, how youâve
been, or even who you truly are.
At the simplest level, I believe that life can be understood through two
key dimensions: âYour
Pursuitsâ and
âYour
Connections.â Together, these shape and
reveal âWho You
Areâ and create the foundation for
self-awareness and growth.
Your Pursuits involve:
Wins: What you strive to achieve.
Joy: What brings you pleasure and fulfillment.
Your Connections involve:
Social: How you nurture relationships with others.
Health: How you care for yourself physically and mentally.
I call theseâWins, Joy, Social, and
Healthâas The 4 Anchors of
Life. These essential areas of life give you
grounding as you navigate the ups and downs of lifeâs waves.
Life is rarely perfectly balanced but naturally swings between these
anchors, and thatâs okay. These natural ebbs and flows happen
continuously, with or without your conscious direction. The key is
learning how to ride those wavesâshifting your balance when needed,
rather than being knocked off course.Â
To navigate this complexity with clarity and calm, I created a
simple yet powerful system called Life at a Glance
Notebook. This notebook helps you observe,
understand, and counterbalance the 4 Anchors of
Life by turning abstract concepts of life balance
into concrete insights.
You, then, will only need to frequently check in with yourself
to spot patterns on whatâs working, whatâs off, and uncover life lessons
to make sure youâre living a balanced, fulfilling life.Â
By regularly tracking these anchors, youâll gain a clear overview of
where your time and energy go, enabling you to make conscious
adjustments and confidently navigate change.
Life at a Glance: The Life-Logging System Built In With Self-ReflectionÂ
Traditional journaling or planners often focus either on recording in
detail or looking too far ahead. The Life at a Glance
Systemcaptures your lived experience concisely
and purposefully, short enough to be sustainable, yet rich enough to
reveal meaningful patterns.Â
Itâs designed to help you answer âHow has my life really been?â
without feeling overwhelmed by details or future plans.
The principle of this notebook is to capture life in a very concise
manner by focusing on intention, introspection, and reflection. Using
charts, columns, and symbols, I represent lifeâs key data deliberately
and compactly. This helps me capture life concisely, identify patterns
clearly and understand what truly matters.
The system is structured into three time-based sections:
Quarter at a Glance:Â
Highlights (Memorable Moments)
Wins (Achievements)
Lessons (What to do More, Less, and How)
Month at a Glance:Â
Life Flow (Joy, Health, and Social Trackers)Â
Focus Flow (Projects with Key Activities, Timelines and Daily Focus)
Week at a Glance:Â
Boost (Boosting Moments)
Drain (Draining Moments)
News (Updates on People and Events)
Life at a Glance Systemis
founded on the idea that when you effectively organize the moments of
your life; lessons, insights, and highlights will naturally emerge and
write themselves. Rather than focusing on planning ahead and
and trying to follow through, this system begins with the smallest
aspects of your lifeâyour day-to-day momentsâand gradually
builds them into the bigger picture: your own life.
Thatâs why the Life at a Glance System
progresses like this:
Week at a Glance serves as the foundation, growing into Quarterly Lessons.
Monthly Life Flow serves as the foundation, growing into Quarterly Highlights.
Monthly Focus Flow serves as the foundation, growing into Quarterly Wins.
Everything you write down on the system will become a valuable source for Quarterly Lessons, guiding you for the next quarter.
How The System Works
The Life at a Glance System follows a
straightforward process that encourages you to regularly flip through
its pages and reflect on your lifeâdaily, weekly, monthly, and
quarterlyâensuring you never lose sight of what truly matters. The more
you review these pages and observe how your life has been filled on each
one, the more it reinforces your determination to discover better ways
to enrich your daily life.
Daily to Yearly Reflection Cycle of Life at
a Glance System
Daily Review:
In Week at a Glance, log your:
Boost: Moments that uplift and energize you
Drain: Moments that exhaust or deplete you
News: Updates on people and events
In Month at a Glance, Track Life Flow (Joy, Health, and Social) and plan your Focus Flow (key activities, timelines, and daily focus)
Weekly Review:
Fill out the Quarterly Lessonssection by noting:
What you want to add (More) or reduce (Less) in your life, using insights from Week at a Glance
How you plan to achieve these changes (How)
Identify actionable steps you can take now; either keep them in mind or write them in your Focus Flow.
Set up your next Week at a Glance.
Monthly Review:
Fill out the Quarterly Wins section by transferring your Focus Flow wins for the month.
Identify key activities to prioritize in the upcoming monthâs Focus Flow, possibly inspired by your Quarterly Wins, Quarterly Lessons or other top priorities.
Fill out Quarterly Highlightsusing your monthâs Life Flow data.
Rate your monthly experience in Quarterly Highlights according to The 4 Anchors of Life (Wins, Joy, Social, and Health)
Add any additional lessons in Quarterly Lessons drawn from your Life Flow, Focus Flow, Quarterly Highlights, or Quarterly Wins as needed.
Prepare your next Month at a Glance.
Quarterly Review:
Reflect on your:
Quarterly Highlights (memorable moments)
Quarterly Wins (achievements)
Quarterly Lessons (what to do More, Less, and How)
Rate your quarter holistically based on The 4 Anchors of Life (Wins, Joy, Social, and Health).
Set up your next Quarter at a Glance, guided by insights from your Quarterly Lessons.
Yearly Review:
Reflect on all four quartersâ Highlights, Wins, and Lessons.
Write an overall summary of how youâve grown and how well youâve balanced The 4 Anchors of Life over the year.
Each step is designed to take approximately 5â10 minutes, thanks to a
pre-designed layout with a clear structure. The system utilizes
symbols heavily to categorize information, grouped by The 4
Anchors of Life: Wins, Joy, Social, and Health. You can,
of course create your own symbols as you see fit. For inspiration, you
can explore terms like âicons,â âsymbols,â or âpictograms.â
Itâs simply a matter of organizing the information and placing
it in the right place to fill your Life at a Glance.
Besides requiring minimal time, it also demands little effort to
flip through, much easier than traditional journals and
planners. The system uses fewer pagesâapproximately 124 per yearâto
capture life holistically.
Quarterly pages: 4 quarters Ă 6 pages each
Monthly pages: 12 months Ă 4 pages each
Weekly pages: 52 weeks Ă 1 page each
For easier navigation, you can pre-set the quarterly and monthly layouts
before the weekly pages, then use a bookmark for the current weekly
page. Alternatively, you can do what I plan to do next year: use a
separate notebook solely for the Week at a Glance to
streamline the reflection process and provide additional space if
needed.
Itâs a structured, concise, and effective system. Donât you think?
Now, letâs dive into the setup in more detail.Â
And hey, I donât mind if you just skim my super-detailed instructions to
see my actual notebook setups. I already bold keywords for you :)
Getting Started: What You Need
All you need are a small notebook, a pencil, and an eraser.
Thatâs it.
You donât even need a ruler since my layouts are mostly built
around a half page sections, making it easy to estimate the
space you need by eye. Columns can be roughly marked with short lines,
and rows counted using dots or lines. Therefore, a dotted, or
grid-ruled notebook is preferable for this system, but a lined
ruled notebook can work as well.
I recommend a small notebook for this system because constraints foster
focus, turning the notebook into a concentrated reflection of life.
Weâre not aiming to be verbose; instead, we strive to
encapsulate life concisely and purposefully. My handwriting is
tiny, so a pocket-sized notebook (Muji Slim Notebook Grid A6 Slim Size)
works well for me. Others might prefer something slightly larger, but
keeping it under B6 size is ideal.
Iâd avoid using pens (sorry, fountain pen lovers!) because the system
requires flexibility of rescheduling and changing your
minds, which pencils handle with ease. However, if you strictly
rely on other planning tools, you can keep using your pen (yay!) and
simply write things down afterward.
Month at a Glance: The Heart of the System
A month is the ideal time frameânot too short to miss emerging patterns,
and not too far off that you lose the plot of what truly matters: your
lived experience. Thatâs why I decided to anchor my system with these
monthly layouts, which I call "Month at a
Glance."
This is the space to track key moments relating to
The 4 Anchors of Life:
Joy: Did you do something enjoyable? Take a pause to appreciate those feel-good moments.
Health: Did you intentionally move your body? What type of activities? How are you feeling physically and mentally? Check in on your wellness.
Social: How did you connect with others? Take the time to be grateful about the moments you have with them.Â
Wins: What did you accomplish? Celebrate those little and big victories.
Month at a Glance has two key layouts to track these
four anchors:Â
Life Flow: Tracks your joyful activities (Joy), social engagements (Social), and health conditions (Health).
Focus Flow: Tracks and plans how to allocate your focus, time, and energy to achieve your wins (Wins).
As you track these regularly, youâll start to see patterns. Maybe youâre
hitting tons of goals but missing out on downtime. Or maybe youâre
having fun but not taking care of yourself enough. This
awareness helps you counterbalance, shifting your focus and create a
better mix that feels right for you.
Life Flow
This is the activity logs where I track activities to visualize my life
for that month. While it may resemble a Habit Tracker, it serves a
different purpose. Instead of focusing solely on building streaks by
ticking boxes and maintaining unbroken chains of each activity, it
encourages me to embrace life's natural ebbs and flows. This
approach allows me to reflect on how I spent my time and energy,
identify health signals, and evaluate my intentionsâall on just two
pages.
Life Flow has three sections:
Joy Trackers: Regular joyful activities tracked with symbols for immediate pattern recognition.
Health Trackers: Daily physical and mental states, including symptom codes, period tracker, sleep hours (line graph around a 7-hour baseline), daily energy levels (smile/frown faces), and intention fulfillment (+/-).
Social Trackers: Logged vertically for media and social moments, noting people involved along with symbols (1 person icon = family, 2 people icon = relatives, 3 people icon = friends) and special moments (hearts).
Let's go through my setup step by step.
First, I track activities I enjoy, such as writing, designing, and
reading. As you can see, I use symbols that represent specific
activities or information, providing clearer and more immediate pattern
recognition than the typical X marks. For books and TV shows, which are
ongoing activities, I decided to write down the titles at the bottom of
the page because I donât necessarily need to record specific dates for
them.
Next, I use health trackers to monitor my health throughout the month.
These trackers help me identify patterns and potential relationships
among:
Daily conditions, noted with letter codes for symptoms, along with my period tracker, all recorded on a single line each day.
Sleep duration each night, represented by a simple line graph with a seven-hour baseline; sleep below seven hours is tracked beneath the baseline, while more sleep is plotted above it.
My energy level at the end of each day, indicated by smiley or frown faces for high and low energy, respectively.
My daily intention or focus, marked with plus or minus symbols to show whether I focus on my priority or got distracted.
Now, as we move on, it gets a bit more interesting because this part is
my social tracker focusing on moments with people.
I rotate the notebook vertically to log social interactions, using
different symbols to note the people involved then I write down the name
or the letter codes for the people I share the day with.Â
1 person icon for family
2 people icon for relatives
3 people icon for friends
The heart symbol highlighting special moments
Here, I also track media consumption such as movies and TV shows, which
are activities I often enjoy with others. I can also do some soft
scheduling, and erase it if gets postponed or canceled. This
approach creates a concise snapshot of my social life and most memorable
experiences.
Focus Flow
This is where I record activities and achievements that require
time, effort, and skills with my full attentionâwhether they are
work-related or personal projects, or even houseworks if wanted. I refer
to these activities as
"Focus" and their outcomes as
"Wins."
The Focus Flow also
consists of three sections:
Focus: Projects with key activities.
Timeline: A visual timeline with deadlines
Daily Focus: The top priority for each day
I organize projects in a timeline with three columns, one per Focus, and
note deadlines (asterisks for strict deadlines).Â
Next, I rotate the notebook vertically to create a soft schedule by
jotting down the daily focusâthe top priority for the day.Â
Non-project tasks are denoted with symbols: stars for single tasks, pencils for writing, and brushes for creative activities.Â
Planned activities are scheduled on specific dates and erased if postponed.Â
Days off are marked with crossed lines.
When you get swept away by the waves of busyness, itâs easy to forget
what youâve actually accomplished. This
Focus Flow anchors you to the
most important focus youâd like to achieve each day, making it easy to
review your wins. This clear overview of focus,
progress, and achievements at a glance also promotes work-life balance
through effective time blocking and the protection of your time as
needed.
Week at a Glance: Categorizing Moments with Boost, Drain, News
People often say you should spend time reflecting on your life
regularly, but few actually do. Most of the time, itâs not because they
donât want to, but because they get overwhelmed by the term "reflection"
and how to approach it.Â
Many believe it to be time-consuming, requiring lengthy confessions
about their lives, so they typically postpone it to the end of the year,
and by that time youâre likely to forget valuable lessons and insights
by then.Â
I used to do it that way for a long time, too, but it doesnât have to
be.
You donât have to figure everything out or find perfect answers to your
lifeâs problems in one self-reflection session. Instead, you can do the
bare minimum engaging in frequent self-reflection, allowing timeâand
your future selfâto uncover insights from these moments later on.
The simplest and quickest way to reflect on your life is by
categorizing your daily moments into two groups: whatâs boosting you and
whatâs draining you. If youâre up for it, you can also add a few more
details or notes on how you feel.
It may seem so simple that it barely feels like a reflection, but over
time, theyâll add up and can become a valuable source for deeper
self-reflection in the future.
Moreover, you cannot truly reflect on your life without
acknowledging your connections to the world and the people around
you. Thatâs why I also include a small section for updates
about the people in my life and the world at large, something that feels
significant enough to remember.
While Month at a Glance offers a dense overview,
Week at a Glance focuses on simple
categorization:
Boost: Energy or mood boosters, wins, important events.
Drain: Draining or distracting factors.
News: Updates on people and events.
Each day, I sort activities, information, and experience into these
three groups, adding some notes and feelings about it. This minimal
structure supports monthly and quarterly reviews and helps identify what
fuels or drains me for future planning.
Quarter at a Glance: Life Overview and Lessons
Often, the most valuable things in your life require time to fully
shine. You might not realize how precious they are in your day-to-day
life until you wait then step back and view the bigger pictureâthe
mosaic of life formed over time. Only then can you truly appreciate how
each moment colors your world.
This is where Quarter at a
Glance comes inâa space designed to help you see
the pieces of your life's mosaic more clearly and bring them into focus
with full appreciation. Quarter at a
Glance serves as both an index and a reflection
tool for your life experiences, wins, and lessons from the past
three months, presented through three simple layouts:
Highlights, Wins,
and Lessons.
Quarterly Highlights
After years of trial and error in capturing the best moments of my life,
I realized that my highlights primarily revolve around meaningful
experiences with people and media that have touched my heart.Â
This insight inspired the dedicated section in Month at a
Glance for media, joyful activities, and social trackers, allowing
you to easily reflect on your life experiences as a whole with the
people you love and the activities you enjoy in it.
This Quarterly
Highlights layout is where I document the key
moments from my Life Flow for
each month, offering a snapshot of what truly mattered during that
time.
End-of-Month Review:
Write down key moments experienced during the month.
Evaluate how well I balanced The 4 Anchors of Life:
Wins: Achievements tracked in Focus Flow
Joy: Enjoyment recorded through Joyful Trackers in Life Flow
Social: Quality of relationships from the Social Tracker in Life Flow
Health: Wellness insights from the Health Tracker in Life Flow
I assess each anchor using a simple stamp rating system:
Meh (0 points)
Smile (1 point)
Elevated (2 points)
Based on these ratings, I assign an overall score for the month.
End-of-Quarter Review:
Revisit these key moments and monthly ratings to soak myself back into each moment once again.
Reflect on a sense of accomplishment I had, the joy and pleasures that nourished my spirit, the relationships I nurtured, and how well I took care of my body, mind, and overall well-being.
Compile the stamp ratings to calculate an overall fulfillment score for the quarter.
This system is not a rigid evaluation but a personal way to
gauge how you feel about your life. The rating method is
designed to help you easily see your life as a positive and meaningful
journey. Even if some areas rank lower, the overall tendency of
the stamps encourages a view of life as a good life
nonetheless.Â
Quarterly Wins
I truly believe that capturing your wins is one of the most
powerful yet neglected tools for a fulfilled life.Â
After all, how can one recognize how much theyâve filled up their life
without counting all the results of their efforts and skills? Thatâs why
I dedicate a space to celebrate my wins like this, and I wish I did this
much sooner.
Setup a Quarterly Wins: I start by stating my focus for the
quarter and setting up a space for each month to jot down what I
consider a winâwhether it aligns with my stated focus or not.Â
End-of-Month Review:
Transfer wins from Focus Flow, organizing them in a way that makes sense to me.
Reflect and write on how these wins make me feel and, when possible, note how I plan to celebrate each success.
If space allows, note observations about what could have gone better or ways to improve your focus next monthâsuch as adjusting time allocation or finding better resources. Otherwise, record these observations in Quarterly Lessons.
End-of-Quarter Review: Take time to mentally celebrate
each win and write down a few overall reflections or insights about your
progress and feelings.
Quarterly Lessons
We live with limited time, energy, effort, skills, and
resources, so the art of living ultimately depends on how
effectively we allocate these precious elements. As a result,
life lessons naturally fall into two categories: doing more of
something or doing less.
Yet, aspiration without actionable steps remains a mere imagined future.
And the most valuable lessons in life come from lived experienceâthrough
trial and error.
Quarterly Lessons is the space where
you identify concrete, actionable steps toward welcoming the changes you
want in your life.Â
These two pages serve as your personal living spaceâa place to
explore, experiment, and define the way you want to live.
Feel free to change your mind, erase, and rewrite as often as
needed. Keep refining and mastering the art of living to your heart's
content.
Try, fail, and try again with different approaches until you discover
what worksâand what doesnât. Or at least until you realize itâs wiser to
pause certain goals and shift your focus elsewhere for the time being.
Whatever happens, carry your lessons forward with you in this Quarterly
Lessons journey.
End-of-Week Review:
Identify What to Tackle: Each week, look for something from Week at a Glanceâthe Boost-Drain sectionâthat you want to tackle on to create positive change. Since, naturally, you want to do more of what boosts you and less of what drains you. In addition to boosts and drains, you may choose to work on specific life challenges or workflows that are weighing you down. Write down whatever you decide to address.
Define the Approach in âHowâ Column: Write the most actionable, realistic step you believe will bring results. Focus on small, manageable actions. Add new items, revise existing ones, or remove entries as your situation changes.
Choose What to Focus Weekly: Whenever possible, pick an item from the How column to focus on for the coming week to try tackling on, or include it in your monthly Focus Flow.
Experiment and Adapt: Try your chosen approach. If it fails, donât give upâtry a different method. If that also doesnât work but you want to revisit it later, or it offered valuable insights, record it in the âTried and Failedâ section.
End-of-Month Review: At the end of the quarter, review
each âHowâ step:
Circle the ones that succeeded.
Underline and mark with a right-pointing arrow any not yet tried but still worth exploring, and move these to your next Quarterly Lessons.
Look through the âTried and Failedâ section for items worth retrying, and incorporate them into your next quarterâs plan.
Erase those that no longer matter to you, if you prefer.
Year at a Glance: Brief Summary of the Year
Year at a Glance is the space to see
The Key
DimensionsâYour
Pursuits and Your
Connectionsâof The 4 Anchors
of Life for the whole year at a glance. By writing
how you counterbalance between Your
Pursuits of achievement and pleasure, as well as
Your Connections to yourself
and others.
This is not a vital part of the system, as reviewing all the quarterly
pages already provides a succinct and comprehensive overview of the
year. However, it serves as a meaningful way to reflect and close a
chapter of your life at the year's end.
I decided to use a single layout with two pages for Year at
a Glance as the closing chapter of the year. This is the
only space in the system where writing in paragraph form might be
preferable.Â
I haven't used this layout myself yet, as itâs still five months away
from the end of the year. Therefore, both the layout and the process are
likely to evolve. However, as of now, the process would look like this:
Review Your Year: Go through all your Quarterly Highlights and Wins recorded in your Quarter at a Glance. From each Anchor areaâWins, Joy, Social, Healthâselect 1 to 3 key items that stand out.
Reflect on Your Key Dimensions: Write down how you feel about each item individually, as well as your overall reflectionsâespecially focusing on how these experiences interact to balance or affect the dynamics between your Key Dimensions:
My Pursuits: Top Wins, Top Joys
My Connections: Best Moments, Top positive things about my wellness (body, mind, and soul).Â
Top Lessons:Review all your Quarterly Lessons and identify the actionable steps that brought the most meaningful, positive change to your life this year. Summarize these as your top three lessons for the year.
Whatâs Next: Look ahead to what excites you most for the coming year. This can include:
Actionable steps from this yearâs Quarterly Lessons that you either havenât tackled yet or tried but didnât quite succeed with.
New aspirations or plans for creating meaningful memories with your loved ones.
Final Notes
The Life at a Glance notebook system is designed to be concise
and intentional. While it doesnât capture every detail, it can easily be
complemented with other tools for more specialized needs. This pocket
notebook encourages frequent, meaningful reflection without the
overwhelm of lengthy journaling.Â
By using clear symbols and a structured layout, I can create a clear,
satisfying overview of my lifeâall within the palm of my hand.
Despite having other journaling and planning tools, their complexity and
effort often lead me to set them aside for days or even months before
returning.Â
With the ease of Life at A Glance system,
though, I find myself reaching for this little notebook every night
before bed to log a few details from my day in Month at a Glance
and jot down a few notes in Week at a Glance.Â
Even on my most exhausted days, simply flipping through these pages to
see my life at a glance lifts my spirits and reminds me that the small
moments of today can grow into something significant in the grand scheme
of things over time.
Life at a Glance may seem quickly to
grasp, but each detail reflects the accumulation of countless small,
significant moments experienced day by day, over hundreds of days. These
moments are distilled into this pocket-sized reflection of life, gently
reminding you that your life, in all its nuances, always
matters.
P.S. For those who are curious, I plan a bit more thoroughly using the
Tweek app. Itâs essentially a planner
with the layout of a physical weekly planner, while offering the digital
benefits like other task management apps.Â
Iâve been wanting to write about my most used apps for so long but
didnât have enough motivation to do so, until I came across this
directory of apps people commonly use. Inspired by this, Iâve
decided to compile a list of my default apps.
Prioritize Native Apps, then Fantastic Updates for New OS Support in Apps
For over ten years, I have enthusiastically tried thousands of apps.
Throughout this time, I have learned that the best apps are the
ones that withstand the test of time, receive frequent updates to
support new operating system features, and, if necessary, offer
excellent options for sharing and exporting.
The most important lesson I've learned from my years is this:
the less I have to worry about the longevity of support, the
better. And ultimately, which apps would have a longer lifespan
than Apple's own apps?
Therefore, this year, I have decided to mostly use native apps instead
of trying to find apps with the best features.
Only if Apple's implementation did not meet my standards then would I
choose popular apps that closely follow native app guidelines and are
most suitable for my use cases. That is why I have chosen a vastly
different list of apps this year compared to my previous years, but I'm
happy with my current choice.
However, since writing, learning, and note-taking have been my passion,
I donât use Apple Notes and Freeform because itâs difficult to export
and share to other apps. Therefore, I couldnât bring myself to use the
native apps, and opted for Drafts and Bear as Apple Notes alternatives,
and Muse as a Freeform alternative.
My Default Apps List
đš Mail Client: Spark (Iâve yet enough time to figure out my workflow for Apple Mail yet)
đź Mail Server: Gmail, Hotmail, Custom Domain using Porkbun with iCloud server.Â
âïž Journaling: Drafts, Stoic. (morning and evening prompts), Day One (memory keeping with photos and videos)
đ Notes&Writing: , (jotting downs ideas and tasks to fully crafted articles), iA Writer (Long-form writing), Craft (large projects), Obsidian (daily journal, reference notes, but uses iA Writer to access files on mobile devices), Bear (Book Notes because itâs much simpler to use it for attachments)
đȘ Health and Fitness: Apple Fitness and Apple Health(for logging) and Gentler Streak (health state), just ditched Fitbod (tracking workout progress), Athlytic and Bevel (daily exertion and recovery), Foodnoms (food log)
My grandmother lived for 94 years, experiencing wars and four reigns of
Thailand.
Year after year, our entire familyâover a dozen of usâgathered at
Grandma's house to share meals during ceremonies, holidays, and
birthdays. It was certainly more than a hundred gatherings that she
graced us with.
She was always there with us from the moment we entered this
world. You could even say that our earliest memories began with her
presence.
She lived so long that we sometimes thought she would live forever. Even
in her final year, she remained healthy enough to smile, talk, and
navigate her daysâuntil she could not anymore.
The reality struck us: no one can live forever, no matter how much we
wish for it.
She was always calm and collected, yet her presence radiated warmth that
made us feel safe and comfortable.
Most importantly, she was a fighter. The doctors told us she had
less than a month to live, yet she gifted us two whole months to be with
her and process our griefâa testament to her strength.
Though her absence has left a significant void in our hearts, it
comforts us to know that she did not suffer much in her final moments.
Now, she can rest peacefully after a long, well-lived
life.
As descendants of Chinese heritage, we held a traditional Chinese
funeral ceremony. We walked her soul to heaven ourselves and
burned essential items for her use in the afterlife. We also
buried her alongside Grandpa, who passed away a decade ago, so
now she can finally enjoy eternal peace with the love of her
life.
This is not a forever goodbye; we will visit her every year as part of
The Qingming Festival. However, it is undoubtedly one of the
hardest goodbyes we have ever faced together.
Although, sadly, the journey back to Grandma's house together as a
family will no longer include her physical presence, we still find joy
in being together. The atmosphere remains filled with warmth
from the bond that Grandpa and Grandma created for us, just as
before. We continue to chat and laugh, looking at each other
with happiness. We can see old memories overlapping with new stories
being created in every moment we spend together in the room where we
have always shared meals.
I believe this is what people mean when they talk about leaving
a legacy behind: when what youâve done becomes the norm and the way you
loved becomes second nature to those who remain. Thereâs no
need for grand gestures or eloquent speechesâjust pure habits lingering
like a perfume that never fades away.
This is what grandma left us:Â Her way of life. Â
And Iâm so grateful for it. We all are.
With what you taught us, Iâm sure we will be okay, no matter how
difficult it may be. The lives we shared will remain with us until our
own last breaths. And the love will continue to persevere, and your
legacy will thrive through our way of life. No one is truly gone
as long as someone remembers them, and we all plan to remember you for
the rest of our lives.
So may you rest in peace. Donât worry about us; we will meet again soon
enough.
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